Science, milestones, and the everyday realities women in leadership still face.
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THE VIOLET VIEW

MARCH 2025 | ISSUE NO. 9

 

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Here's your latest Violet View—bringing you actionable leadership insights that cut through the noise.

Hi there, it's Stefanie here (Co-Founder and President of TVG).

 

March is a month to celebrate women’s contributions—to business, to leadership, and to our communities. And this year, that celebration feels especially personal: The Violet Group is now officially certified as a women-owned business!

 

We launched the business with a distinct point of view. We believed that leadership development could be both rigorous and human. That people can achieve extraordinary results while treating people with respect, consideration, and care. That belief has become a business, and now, a growing community of clients, coaches, and partners who share that vision. We thank you for being a part of it.

 

It’s a milestone that marks years of building and leading—not just as a firm that delivers exceptional results, but as women who sought to found a company reflective of the values we hold deeply: rigor, excellence, inclusion, and integrity.

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And yet, celebration co-exists with both complexity and concern.

 

We’re in a moment when women’s progress—especially in corporate spaces but also on the world stage—is still too often hard-won. When diversity, equity, and inclusion efforts are under attack. When the push to justify the value of inclusive leadership has returned, louder than it should ever need to be.

 

But the science is on our side.

 

A new meta-analysis reviewed nearly 40 years of research and found that women tend to lead more effectively than men on some key dimensions: transformational leadership, collaboration, and people development. These are not soft skills—they are bottom-line drivers of performance, innovation, and culture.

 

This is not to say that women are universally better leaders than men. Leadership effectiveness is both contextual and complex. Differences in effectiveness are powerful drivers for organizational success, but only if they’re celebrated, acknowledged, and equally valued.

 

This is something we often see overlooked in our work. People are moving fast, heads down, focused on performance, and miss chances to tease out — and truly utilize — valuable differences. 

 

Perhaps you're struggling to develop a high potential employee, and your peer really excels at this. How do you tap into that?

 

Maybe you've been tasked with leading a critical cross-functional project, and you can't quite crack the code on collaboration with a diverse group—but your direct report knows just what to do.

 

These moments—where we tap into the power of difference in practical ways—are where inclusive, values-driven leadership leads to results. A project successfully delivered, or a clear, focused development plan that helps your high potential soar. 

 

Here's what we know, and we hope you acknowledge too:

 

Women in leadership:

  • Drive profitability and innovation when represented in greater numbers.
  • Build teams with higher collective intelligence.
  • Shape cultures where people don’t just stay—they thrive.
  • Create policies that support success for all.
  • Lift as they climb, mentoring others and paving the way for the next generation.

And yet, women still navigate a long list of hurdles:

  • Being penalized for warmth or dismissed when assertive.
  • Absorbing office “housework” that doesn’t advance their careers.
  • Walking a tightrope of perception: too much, not enough.
  • Facing the motherhood penalty and gendered feedback.
  • Receiving less funding, fewer sponsors, and smaller chances to scale.

And still—we persist. Women lead. Reshape industries. Deliver results. Reimagine what leadership looks and feels like.

 

Whether you’re a woman in leadership yourself, or a manager, mentor, or decision-maker—your actions shape the environment around you. If you’re wondering how to make a difference, here are a few places to start:

  1. Notice who’s missing—and invite them in.
  2. Challenge bias and speak up when you see double standards or invisible labor falling along gendered lines, even in small moments.
  3. Surface powerful differences as real drivers of performance.
  4. Sponsor a woman whose results and potential deserve visibility.
  5. Trust the science, and the experts who’ve studied leadership dynamics and effectiveness for decades.

And finally, say thank you. Know a woman who’s made an impact on your career or leadership? Reach out today. A few simple words of recognition and an I see you can go an exceptionally long way.

 

At The Violet Group, we’re here to build better leaders, better teams, and better workplaces—through rigor, insight, and deep partnership. We’re proud to be women-owned. We’re even prouder to be women-led.

 

From the early days in my living room at my kitchen table to this milestone moment, I’m reminded that women’s leadership is powerful—not in theory, but in practice.

 

Happy Women’s History Month. May we keep learning from—and investing in—the leadership of women, every month of the year.

 

Happy leading and learning,

Stefanie

What We’re Teaching: Career Advice That Lasts 🗣️

 

We recently launched our 5th annual leadership development cohort for one of our clients—16 professionals starting a six-month journey to grow together.

 

At the orientation, we asked a simple but powerful question: What’s the best career advice you’ve received? (We love this question because it offers a window into each person’s approach to their career—and the group gets to benefit from one another’s wisdom.)

 

A few standouts:

  • Focus on excellence—do great work, and the rest will follow.
  • Deliver on what you promise—don't lose sight of your goals.
  • Keep learning—your best asset is a growth mindset.
  • Quality over quantity in networking—meaningful connections matter more than numbers.
  • Take intentional pauses—being strategic is better than just staying busy.

It’s one thing to hear great advice—it’s another to put it into practice. That’s why, in every cohort, we don’t just share leadership concepts—we create space for application, and those lightbulb moments that help leaders turn insight into action.

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What We’re Listening To 🎙️

 

Ever wondered what it’s like to be in a real leadership coaching session?

 

Muriel Wilkins, a longtime Executive Coach, takes listeners behind the scenes as she helps high-performing leaders tackle real challenges—from navigating career transitions to leading with confidence.

 

💡 Why we love it: The best leadership lessons don’t come from theory—they come from real conversations. Each episode offers practical insights you can apply right away, whether you’re stepping into a bigger role or refining your leadership approach.

 

If you’re looking for a podcast that’s equal parts strategy and real talk, this one’s worth a listen.

Give it a Listen!

What We’re Reading 📖

 

Ever stepped into leadership and thought, “Am I doing this right?”

 

That’s exactly how Julie Zhuo felt when she became a manager at 25—leading a team with no formal training, no roadmap, and plenty of trial and error. In The Making of a Manager, she shares practical, no-nonsense advice for navigating leadership challenges, from hiring and giving feedback to earning trust and making tough calls.

 

💡 One insight we love: Skip the “compliment sandwich.” Feedback is most effective when it’s clear, direct, and actionable—not buried between feel-good statements.

 

Whether you’re new to leadership or looking to sharpen your skills, this book is packed with insights worth applying.

 

What’s a leadership lesson you had to learn the hard way?

Give it a Read!

When Self-Awareness Becomes a Competitive Edge

 

Self-awareness is one of the most powerful leadership skills you can build.

 

In our latest blog, Kelly Levin, Ph.D. shares the story of a high-performing leader whose lack of self-awareness was diminishing his team—and how coaching helped him align with his intent with his impact.

 

She explores how self-awareness became his competitive edge—and the real, measurable change that followed.

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Until Next Time...

 

Next week we’re headed to Denver for the Society for Industrial-Organizational Psychology’s (SIOP) Annual Conference, where our team will be speaking on three panels—diving into topics that blend the science of leadership with practical impact. Here’s what we’re presenting on Saturday, April 5th:

 

Shark Tank for Coaches: Psychological Safety, Change, and Business Impact

  • Time: 8:00–9:20 AM (MDT)

  • Speakers: Stefanie Mockler, Ph.D. & Kelly Levin, Ph.D.

  • Session Overview: A live coaching case session where audience members weigh in—and expert coaches react. Learn how psychological safety, behavior change, and business outcomes shape coaching success.

Beyond Feel-Good Feedback: Cracking the Code on Measuring Coaching Impact

  • Time: 10:30–11:20 AM (MDT)

  • Speaker: Kelly Levin, Ph.D.

  • Session Overview: Explore real-world methods for evaluating coaching effectiveness and tying it to meaningful outcomes.

Energizing Board Self-Evaluations with Team Effectiveness and Assessment Practices

  • Time: 2:00–2:50 PM (MDT)

  • Speaker: Catherine Savage, Ph.D.

  • Session Overview: Take a peek inside the boardroom to see how team dynamics and assessment practices are reshaping board evaluations.

Not attending? We’ll be sharing key takeaways and highlights on LinkedIn—follow along!

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    Until then...happy listening, learning, and leading, TVG community!

     

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